All posts by tember

One of the parental units in our family of five. A mom, wife, BI and data science developer, artist and event coordinator - really a renaissance soul. Happiest when exploring, having great conversation or riding my horse. From Kamloops, BC but currently living in Seattle with the family.

Timeraiser

This past November was the 8th (!!) Annual KTW Timeraiser – and it was the last with me at the helm. Our family move to Seattle meant I needed help making sure the KTW Timeraiser lives on, improves and becomes a real legacy for Kamloops. Spikey Mike and Jennifer O’Brien were stoked at the opportunity to be part of the Timeraiser and I am SO HAPPY to hand them the reins. They share the same passion for art and love of community that I do and I know they will make it their own and grow it with heart and a smart mind.

The event was amazing once again. I loved talking to attendees, the sponsors, the agencies and I am so honored that you think I am responsible for the success event. I am really just channel for everyone’s energy and take care of the to do list (usually at the last minute).

Make sure to continue to check out the KTW Timeraiser of Month features articles each month in the Kamloops This Week newspaper and online at www.ktwtimeraiser.ca

I love Kamloops.

The meaning of life is to create

I recently had a revelation that our purpose in life is to create.

At a basic, biological level we are driven to create life – i.e. children.  But even as we evolve and it gets more complicated, that drive to create something is much stronger than many people give credit.

For those of you who do spend time creating – be it paintings, or technology architecture solutions, or coaching – when do you feel most fulfilled?  When do you most  feel like you are contributing to life?  For me it is when I put a magnificent idea into action, or when I step back and look at a lovely drawing I created.  Those creative products make me feel like my unique being contributed something to life in a big picture way.  Art, process changes, powerful words, new life, new products – these creative outputs live on without their creator and are the summary of someone’s purpose.

There is a certain satisfaction in getting a job done.  There is a measure of happiness that comes with enjoying a vacation.  There is certainly a feeling of gratification after a great conversation, or movie.  And winning an important sports match will have you laughing and celebrating for hours.  But making something that will exist independently of you and is unique to your personality truly connects to your purpose – and you can feel it.

As someone who worked in computers in the corporate world for years – I can recall the times that I felt like I was using my gifts to create something (and that was the minority of the time).  Those times did indeed fuel my fire for long periods of time.

Now that I own my business and have ‘come out’ as an artist – I spend much more time being creative, and I can feel it.  I actually feel the urge to exercise that muscle now if I have been doing straight forward activities for too long.

I have 3 kids – so it is easy for me to say that my main purpose in this lifetime is be a great parent.  But this creative purpose is much harder to put words on – but it is so important.  You don’t need to be able to draw to be creative – you just need to be open to the massive array of thoughts that bubble up in your brain.  And honour them!

Maybe you feel an urge to write poetry once in a while?  Take a secret notebook and write.  As you become more comfortable in your words, you may share it one day.  If you are lucky enough to encounter people who resonate with your words, you will feel a joy almost as lovely as becoming a parent.  Do you always have ideas on how to do something better – at work or in the world?  Pick one idea per year to put out there.  Investigate it, see what it would take to implement, look for partners.  Imagine the feeling of accomplishment that would come with a successful implementation.

I will go a step further – it is this power of creativity that is the apex of evolution and has made humans the dominant species.  Using a round rock as a wheel or using fire to cook food wasn’t learned or instinct – it was creativity.  As long we stay with what we already know everyday, all day, we stop evolving.  And as soon as we push our own envelope, even a little bit, we start to feel our place in this life.  The more you explore your creative skills, the more energy you put towards it, the more you evolve personally, and become more connected to yourself and the planet.

There is one caveat to all this.  Creative thinking is only step one.  As a creative infant – it will be a wonderful masterpiece, but once you have mastered thinking, it is no longer really being creative and it won’t bring you much joy.  You need put it into some kind of action, some kind of commitment, you need to get it out there.  Any career graphic artist will tell you that designing within the same box over and over again stops feeling creative – even if they still produce amazing work.  Your creative muscle is strongest on the edge of your comfort zone.

Go ahead – learn the meaning of life.  It is within you.

25 Word stories


A couple of years ago I found a challenge to submit a 25 Word story. I can’t remember what website it was on, but I submitted a few stories. 
I stumbled across the stories yesterday and I thought they were good pieces – I couldn’t believe I wrote them!?

Here they are:

Become One
The dichotomy is expressive and colourful vs professional and calculating. To join them proudly is challenging.   Two halves give birth to a fulfilled, whole being.

Life
Begin with atmosphere and lightning? Impossible.   Yet here we are – conscious. There is a force, yet unnamed, that really drives life. Open your mind.

U Roq
A spirit is born. Hair of fire and liquid elegance. S/he battles the enemies of progress: exploding ignorance, dousing anger and always, always seeing beauty.

Welcome

One of the ideas that has been bouncing around in my head for quite some time is to have a blog. I have actually started a couple of different ones over the years. I have one for my artwork, one for my random/must share opinions and my socialfire.ca website.

But I want to bring it all together – somehow knit all my eclectic interests together in one coherent stream of consciousness. And I think it will work… the biggest challenge. It needs to be updated regularly – and consistency isn’t my thing.